Jenifer Tidwell ([info]jtidwell) wrote,
@ 2008-02-05 11:51:00
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Housecleaning
Our house is a mess! There's nothing new about that, but it's starting to make me a little crazy.

I've become less and less tolerant of a messy house over the years, but (1) Rich and I are both terrible housekeepers, (2) Rich is still more tolerant of mess than I am, which means he doesn't have the same emotional investment that I do in cleaning (that's not a slight on him!), and (3) Matthew adds an amount of mess completely disproportionate to his size. :-)

Of course, having a child around who can now WALK (!!!) means that we need to get serious about the clutter, because it can become dangerous. We've caught him reaching up to countertops and tables to pull things down, for instance. No disasters yet, but it's just a matter of time.

So we've kind of reached a crisis point. I've concluded that these are the factors that will help us reach a better state:

* Do a serious decluttering. I want to get rid of a lot of stuff, which may involve freecycle, ebay, the local PTO thrift shop, Goodwill, consignment stores, or the curb. For things we want to keep, I want to get yet more big plastic bins, bin stuff up, label it, and move it to the attic or basement. The problem? This takes time, and my time is worth MONEY these days! Literally, since I'm contracting by the hour!

* More storage space, and more intelligent use of the space we already have. We've built an immense bookshelf system -- already mostly full -- which we need to use better. Our closets are small, and we don't use them terribly well either (they need decluttering too). I'm convinced that we three messies can live in this small house -- we just need to be smarter about it.

* We need to get our daily "systems" working better. We tend to leave random stuff lying around, to leave laundry on the couch, to not move recycling out to the storage area, to not break down the boxes we get in the mail, to not clear off the kitchen counters... With enough self-discipline and better daily habits, we can keep the clutter down without having to explicitly "declutter" nearly so often. I'm working on that, habit by habit, but it's maddeningly slow work.

* Dirt! I'm actually not bad at getting rid of dirt -- the clutter is in the way, that's all. :-) When I get on a cleaning kick, Rich knows to stay out of my way, and not a cobweb or speck of food remains after I'm done. We have the tools: a nice new vacuum, a good rag mop, non-chemical cleaners (soap and vinegar), a Dustbuster, etc. But we need to keep the clutter down, and I need to find time to get rid of the dirt more frequently. Only the time issue would be solved with a maid service, not the clutter.

So [info]recordersmith and I are going to keep each other accountable. :-) We'll both post weekly about progress we're making in our respective houses.




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[info]perspicuity
2008-02-05 05:50 pm UTC (link)
yay dirt! i'm also decluttering in new ways. i hope to win someday :) especially in the density wars.

on "pulling stuff down". like cats, sometimes you can be devious and setup a harmless but educational scenario :> that'll teach'em that it's not good to do ;) it works with cats at least :)

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[info]jtidwell
2008-02-06 02:01 am UTC (link)
He's already pulled stuff down on (or near) his head. He either ignored it or giggled, I can't remember which... I don't have the nerve to let him pull down something that would actually hurt!

Maybe put a cup of cold water atop a tempting placemat? :-)

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[info]perspicuity
2008-02-06 03:00 am UTC (link)
yah, freezing cold water :)

with cats, it's duct tape :>

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[info]recordersmith
2008-02-06 06:13 pm UTC (link)
I cant imagine how challenging it must be to try to teach reasonable safety awareness and consequences without destroying creativity and curiosity.

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[info]cjsmith
2008-02-05 06:00 pm UTC (link)
Oh wow, good for you both! I'm very tempted to jump on this bandwagon right now, as decluttering and organization are long-standing goals/hurdles of mine. But I'm reluctantly going to rein myself in. Working six days a week plus preparing for square dance gigs puts me right on the edge of sanity, drat it. I'll enjoy reading about your endeavors!

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[info]jtidwell
2008-02-06 02:02 am UTC (link)
Thanks! :-) Yeah, you've got some other pretty serious endeavors going on in your life -- I can't see decluttering as being as important to you as, say, preparing for vet school. It was never important to me, until now...

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[info]cjsmith
2008-02-06 05:29 pm UTC (link)
I can certainly imagine why it suddenly becomes more important when your little one might learn any day now how to open the sewing cabinet drawers! Of course, to balance that out, aren't you as busy as you've ever been in your life, right now? :)

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[info]recordersmith
2008-02-05 06:19 pm UTC (link)
I hear ya!

Not sure about the daily systems thing on my end--getting home at 9 at the earliest many days means I pretty much go straight to bed, or if not I have no energy. So in my case it's going to have to be a weekly cleanup of the week's mess. Thinking about packing up books tho. That and dealing with clothing are on the top of my house list.

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[info]jtidwell
2008-02-06 02:05 am UTC (link)
Ohhh, that does make it challenging. Good luck!

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[info]gmpe
2008-02-05 07:24 pm UTC (link)
I found that the parts of the house tv kids have access to stays less cluttered than the places we shove stuff so the kids can't get it. Making a lot more available and flexible and useful storage has helped a lot. My big and tough project is finishing setting up my office and catching up on two years of back filing plus setting up art storage which is in the wrong parts of my office. I've decided to start with all the easy filing that I have files for already while keeping track of files I need to set up later. I figure that will at least ensure that I find all the 2007 tax stuff.

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[info]jtidwell
2008-02-06 02:19 am UTC (link)
We've discovered the same thing, about the kid-accessible areas being fairly clean and decluttered. (Of course, it's clean because I hate seeing dust bunnies clinging to the baby's PJs as he crawls around in the morning.) The other parts of the house? Forget it! Those are the areas that actually need more in-depth work, but they're likely to be punted in favor of the dangerous toddler-accessible areas.

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[info]gmpe
2008-02-06 02:27 am UTC (link)
Ah! But you see, that's the secret. At some point, you have to toddler-clean more and more of the house as they want to walk and explore more. And then they want to be on the stepping stool to help you "cook", so the counter in clean. The house is clean because of the two year old, more more than the one year old. (Actually, the playroom floor is clean of dust bunnies and such because of the one year old that eats everything before you can stop him. The two year old just picks up things like that and hands them to us to throw away.) So, more kid-imposed tidying will be coming your way. One of those fringe benefits of having kids no one told us about.

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[info]recordersmith
2008-02-06 03:15 am UTC (link)
So clearly, the solution to my own house cleaning problems is to acquire a child...

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[info]gmpe
2008-02-06 04:28 am UTC (link)
Sure! (Except a little birdie told me that this breaks in a couple of years, and especially by the time they are teenagers.)

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[info]sauergeek
2008-02-06 05:07 am UTC (link)
Do the de-cluttering first. Otherwise, you may end up storing stuff that should've been punted.

Alternately, move from a house into a small apartment. Compressing your stuff does wonders for getting rid of lots of things. (When I moved from a two story, three bedroom, full basement house to a two bedroom apartment, I suspect I got rid of nearly half of the stuff in the house. Much of which was still in boxes and had not been opened for two moves.)

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